Friday, January 25, 2013

Why Domestic Violence Victims Don't Leave



http://www.ted.com/talks/leslie_morgan_steiner_why_domestic_violence_victims_don_t_leave.html?source=facebook#.UQL8FFNPqpV.facebook


Speakers Leslie Morgan Steiner: Writer

Leslie Morgan Steiner is a writer and outspoken advocate for survivors of domestic violence -- which includes herself.

Why you should listen to her:

Leslie Morgan Steiner is the author of Crazy Love, a memoir about her marriage to a man who routinely abused and threatened her. In it she describes the harrowing details that unfolded unexpectedly -- from the moment she met a warm, loving, infatuated man on the subway, to the moment he first laid a hand on her, when he grabbed her neck just days before their wedding. Steiner also edited Mommy Wars: Stay-at-Home and Career Moms Face Off on Their Choices, Their Lives, Their Families, a collection of essays by women struggling to balance motherhood and their careers.
Steiner received her MBA in marketing from Wharton School of Business and worked in marketing for Johnson & Johnson before transitioning to writing, as General Manager of theWashington Post Magazine. Steiner writes a weekly column called "Two Cents on Modern Motherhood," for the website Mommy Track’d, and she has just finished her third book, on the effect of fertility treatments on modern motherhood.

Quotes by Leslie Morgan Steiner

  • “[Domestic violence is] a carefully laid physical, financial and psychological trap.”
  • “The question, ‘Why does she stay?’ is code for some people for, ‘It's her fault for staying,’ as if [domestic violence] victims intentionally choose to fall in love with men intent upon destroying us.”
  • “Domestic abuse happens only in intimate, interdependent, long-term relationships — in other words, in families — the last place we would want or expect to find violence.”
  • “It's incredibly dangerous to leave an abuser, because the final step in the domestic violence pattern is: kill her.”

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